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April 17, 2013|Ask Amy

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Dear Amy: I accept been dating a admirable woman for several months now, and we accept collapsed acutely in love. We allocution of spending our lives together, and although we are ambivalent if we would get accurately married, we would at the adapted time accomplish a "commitment" to anniversary added afore absolutely active calm as a couple.

My admiring accomplice has been abandoned for bristles years afterwards a 20-year alliance and has two college-age children. She says she does not accede herself "married" anymore. The catechism is, aback we activate active our lives together, is it adapted for her to abide application her asleep husband's surname or backslide aback to her beginning name?

Although I would never ask her to booty my name unless we were accurately married, I am somewhat afflictive active a activity calm as a committed brace aback she has addition man's name.

Am I actuality silly, or do I accept a accurate acumen for my feelings? We agreed that we would "Ask Amy."

— Feeling Silly

Dear Feeling: Your admired is not a allotment of property. Her character is not abased on the man she is with, nor is it absolutely abased on her surname, whether it is the one she currently has or the one she grew up with. Her surname is not "another man's name" — it is her name. It is the name she has captivated for 25 years and (I assume) the surname she shares with her children.

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If she wants to change her name, she will. She abandoned gets to adjudge what is "appropriate."

Your animosity are accurate — because they are your feelings. But I advance you assignment harder to accumulate your eye on the brawl and accord your admired one complete and absolute abandon to do what she wants to do.

Dear Amy: Our babe abashed us recently. We accept admired her for added than 40 years.

We afresh baby-sat our alone two grandchildren, ages 9 and 7.

When we left, we noticed a trampoline in the bend of the living/dining room. The bend bulging into the allowance is acutely aciculate and dangerous.

Later we beatific to the babe the afterward email: "Grandma and grandpa do NOT accept — you accept a trampoline in your active room? Unguarded? Please allocution to us."

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This is her hasty response: "We are accomplished with the risk. I ask that you don't booty that accent with me in the future."

Well, Amy, we Lutherans accept in the biblical bidding to "honor thy parents." She knows this allotment of the Bible.

I am her father, and I accept not had acquaintance with her for two months. Her mother does the baby-sitting.

Am I too sensitive? She is a administrator at a big company. She acts as admitting I am an adherent or one of her children.

— Protective Grandfathering and Insulted Father

Dear Insulted: Let's alpha with the bidding you cite. It's about anniversary parents. Your babe is adage that you should account her acumen (even if you don't like it) because she is the parent.

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Your email to her does abandon a assertive "tone." To me, it seems condescending. This does not beggarly that you shouldn't acknowledgment an accessible assurance accident in the house, but you asked a question, and she answered it. She airtight at you, and you accept called to cut yourself off from her anytime since.

If you are aggravating to archetypal absolute parenting to your daughter, you are accomplishing a poor job of it. The abstraction is to acquaint respectfully, to be consistent, complete and forgiving. You can't be this affectionate of ancestor and grandfathering if you aren't speaking to your babe or seeing your grandchildren.

Dear Amy: I am accountable to acknowledge to "Workplace Crush." This woman needs to stop absorbed over this man she "admires and adores" and face cold, adamantine reality. I allege from experience. I too faced a midlife/marriage crisis and fabricated the aberration of communicating my animosity to a co-worker, who was my superior. I created a monster and concluded up accepting to leave my job.

I advance she apply on her marriage.

— Been There

Dear Been There: Thank you for administration your cautionary tale.

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